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6316. Mike
Columbus, Ohio
Age: 36
Aug 21, 2009
PRIVATE wedding
I am curious if anybody knows how one would go about getting married privately as well as legally? Private in that record of marriage can not be found through normal database searches at state and local courthouses here in the United States and legal in that we will be legally married? Would a marriage ceremony outside of the United States suffice?

6314. Drake
LA, CA
Age: 34
Aug 21, 2009
Twitter to post your location
You will be able to opt out - they say - but Twitter knows where you are when you 'tweet' and will be posting this information with your message as a "dateline".

Submitted Link #1: http://bits.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/08/20/tweets-wi...

6312. John
NY,NY
Age: 21
Aug 21, 2009
Certification
I'm interested in getting certified in certain areas in computing (e.g Network+, CCNA, etc). I was wondering if anyone here would know what are the privacy implications (e.g Is my name on some central database of certified persons with my picture, etc) in doing so and/or ways to better protect my privacy.

6311. Mark
Dearborn, MI
Age: 39
Aug 21, 2009
#6291 - Location Revealed
Jon, ask your apartment complex if they distribute any of your personal information to the white pages or any other venues. Find out if they keep your lease private.

A question is whether one can rent an apartment (without having a credit check run) in one's own name and have that info dissemenated. The simple act of a credit check itself doesn't communicate that you actually decided to accept the lease (make sure the apartment complex did not put a record of your lease on your credit reports). This might help you eliminate the apartment as the leak and direct you to look at the electricity.

6310. dan
sunnyvale ca
Age: 23
Aug 21, 2009
staying anonymous on the internet
how can i start a blog about a really controversial subject and keep my identity secret? especially don't want anyone from my company to know who i am. thanks in advance. great forum!

Submitted Link #1: http://www.cnn.com/2009/TECH/08/21/outing.anonymou...

... Don't do it. Period.

Note to readers:

The URL below was entered by me, not by Dan. It's a news item on CNN titled, "The coming-out stories of anonymous bloggers." As you will see, they were not so anonymous after all.

6309. Stan
Atlanta GA
Age: 44
Aug 21, 2009
Obomacare v/s Americans right to financial privacy
Buried in the 1,017 pages of the House Democrats’ health-care bill is a little-noticed provision that for the first time could give the government access to the checking or credit-card information of every American.

Under section 163, which is entitled “Administrative Simplification,” the bill sets new “standards” for electronic transactions between individuals and their health-care providers.

According to section 163, the standards will “enable the real-time (or near real-time) determination of an individual’s financial responsibility at the point of service . . . ” In addition, they will “enable electronic funds transfers, in order to allow automated reconciliation with related health care payment and remittance advice.”

Submitted Link #1: http://article.nationalreview.com/?q=ODg4Y2FkYmFlZ...

6307. Drake
LA, CA
Age: 34
Aug 20, 2009
6306 - Jon's Location
They did do a credit check on me only. How would this alert the police to my wherabouts?
I didn't want to pry earlier, but most of the pertinent questions can be covered by the answer 'databases'. Your marriage is in the records. If you've been married long enough to have filed taxes, your SSN's are linked. If you've shared anything else, like utilities, you co-signed for the car, your previous residence, etc. you're linked to her. When the apartment complex did a credit check they entered your SSN. What came back was everything of a financial nature you've done alone and everything you've done with her.

Even if you didn't co-sign for this auto, aren't one of its registered owners, haven't been linked to it in the past by getting another ticket, your wife's info is linked to you in the databases.

PROBABLY: The photo was taken, the databases interrogated for ownership information, the most recent address was listed as the new apartment, the bill was sent.


If questions persist, I can pry more. Other as yet unknown details may change the answer.


6306. jon
springfield, MO
Age: 36
Aug 20, 2009
Re Drake #6291 - Location
Drake - They did do a credit check on me only. How would this alert the police to my wherabouts? I may make some phone calls as suggested. This apartment is destined to be a ghost address for a po box I am setting up so I am not real concerned about privacy here - but still shocked that this data was so quickly and easily made available.

6305. Ed
Southern California
Age: 69
Aug 20, 2009
Reply to #6292 - Arizona DMV
Jimbo, a few years ago I a had very similar experience to yours with AZ DMV. New address, new insurance, smog test, drivers license and car registration. I was heading out of town by 1:00 pm. They even loaned me a screwdriver to put on new plates. This office was a main one in the Phoenix area. After dealing with California's DMV for many years, I could not believe the great treatment! I drove away with both AZ & CA drivers license!!!!!!

6304. Jack
Ann Arbor, MI
Age: 21
Aug 20, 2009
PO Box application
I am a just-transferred college student here in Ann Arbor. I use my parents' address as a ghost address. It is on my driver license, my credit reports, my voter registration, everything. Today, I tried to get a PO Box here in Ann Arbor.

I was unable to heed JJL's advice to deal with a postal clerk of the opposite sex. Instead, I dealt with the only clerk at the counter: an older gentleman who was being difficult with every request given to him by all the customers preceding me.

I told him that I would like to apply for a PO Box, and after he asked for ID, I put my passport and driver license on the table.

But then he asked me if I had "proof of your local address here in Ann Arbor." I replied that I did not have a local address here, that I was a college student and still looking for a place. Then I mentioned that my driver license had my "permanent address" on it, "where my parents live." He said, "As soon as you get a local address, you MUST [he emphasized "must"] come back here and update this form with your local address." But after that, it was smooth sailing and I quickly had the box keys. He did not again mention his command to later update my local address, and it did not seem he made any note anywhere of it. I will see if my box gets closed anytime in the future over the issue.

I relate this story in case anyone else comes up against a postal clerk who demands "a local address." If your ghost address is far away, as mine is, figure out a reason why it is so far away and you do not have a local address. For young people with out-of-state ghost addresses who attempt to get a PO Box in an area with a university, "I am a college student" (or "I am a grad student" if you are slightly older) may suffice. But if you are much older, perhaps you just moved to the area for a job, and do not have a local address yet? Perhaps you are opening up another office of your existing business in this region and found a great deal on office space but will not be able to move in for a few months? Do some thinking!

All that said, you may not experience a hassle with your clerk: the last time I got a PO Box, the female postal clerk took my IDs and my filled-out PS-1093 and gave me my box number and keys pretty much without any questions - perhaps this was because I was in the the Postal Service facility in downtown Detroit that processes and distributes all the mail for the metro area where they handle a lot of customers, and do not have the time or desire to scrutinize every PO Box applicant. Hopefully, it will be that easy for you!

6299. Susan
Cleveland, OH
Age: 53
Aug 20, 2009
Re: #6285
To ensure that assets (house, LLC, etc) are transferred to the person you want them to go to after you die, you should prepare a will.

This can be a private document, as it is only filed with the probate court after death. But don't keep the will in a bank safe deposit box, as these are sealed upon the death of the box holder, even if there is a co-renter who is still living. And, when it is opened, a person from the local auditor's office will be there to document the contents of the box.

6298. Roger
Baytown, Texas
Age: 59
Aug 20, 2009
Speed cameras
There was an article in the Houston paper recently about red light cameras. Someone was fighting a ticket and made a FOI request for the names of others who received red light violations. He was given personal information of over 10,000 people who had paid with a check,the bank name, account number,address, etc. There never was an explaination of why the city retained this information after the ticket was paid. A city employee "resigned" shortly thereafter. The lesson is always pay this type of thing with cash or a money order.

6297. Brian
Detroit MI
Age: 21
Aug 20, 2009
#6291 - location revealed
Jon, I urge you to study the ticket and find some phone numbers to call. Ask them why they did not mail the ticket to the address on the car registration and how exactly they acquired your apartment mailing address. Ask them why the apartment address "superseded" the registration address (was it because of locality)?

Please post again with the answers they give you so we can all learn something!

6294. Drake
LA, CA
Age: 34
Aug 20, 2009
6291 - Location revealed
Jon, several questions come to mind about the situation you described. But without prying further, here are some things to think about:
Both of your (real) names are found at the electricity provider. This pollutes your compartmentalization efforts.
When you rented this apartment, did they run a credit check?This links you to the new address and becomes a data point that bridges the updated address to everything in your past. It especially points the way to the electricity company.

The most likely culprit is the new apartment.


6293. Mark
Dutch Harbor, Ak
Age: 35
Aug 20, 2009
Speed sprays, plate covers, etc
There was a Mythbusters special that completely debunked the use of sprays on license plates, plate covers, etcMy best advice is to just obey the law. You will not be a target!

6292. Jimbo
Las Vegas, NV
Age: 50
Aug 20, 2009
reply to #6146, re: AZ DMV
Regarding working with the DMV in Arizona, some states are responsive to the local cultural ideals of individual freedoms and privacy and AZ seems to be that way. They make no effort to tie your registration to a license number, whereas California seems to insist on it. (Although I am curious what they would do if you had no license) I have had good relations with the AZ DMV folks and good luck with privacy concerns. Only one issue ever came up, and that was with a mailbox address that was flagged on their computer as a common one for illegal aliens. It turns out the only thing that they were worried about was keeping out our neighbors from the south. If you read the paper you know this is a hot button there. However on that visit 5 years ago, and on another 3 years ago, I was able to drive to a UPS office a few blocks away, get a box, drive one more block to an insurance office, buy liability insurance (cheap), and go to dmv pay very low fees, and get registered. Remember to get the TWO year registration to save a trip back. Also no smog in most areas(only in Tuscon or Pheonix). The first time you register there you have to go around back for a VIN inspection. At no time was my license ever mentioned at DMV, but of course the insurance people wanted it (out of state OK with them, as I was just arriving), and a social. best regards Jimbo

6291. jon
springfield, MO
Age: 36
Aug 19, 2009
Location revealed - how?
Within 1 month of moving to Springfield I ran a red light and was caught on camera and received a ticket mailed to the apartment I am renting (in Springfield). My question is this: since my car was registered only under my wife's name in a different state, how and why was the ticket mailed to her here in Springfield? The apartment is under my name, cable is under my name and electricity is under both our names. Who is the most likely culprit for providing this info to police? No postal forwarding was ever provided for this address. Thanks

6290. Mark
Barnesville, Georgia
Age: 35
Aug 19, 2009
Life lessons
A coworker had a live-in girlfriend and he discovered that she was fooling around. He broke up with her and asked her to move out. He changed the locks. She went to the police and showed them received mail with her name and his address on the envelopes. She convinced them that the BF didn't go through the proper eviction procedures and had no right to lock her out of the house. The police went with her to the house and watched while she broke in. The BF showed up. He ended up writing her a large check on the spot to get her to go away.

6286. Mike
Worcester, Mass.
Age: 49
Aug 19, 2009
Adventures in password-land
I'm writing this to give readers a little food for thought on choosing passwords and general file security. Recently, I came across an old Excel file that I wanted to update but could not for the life of me remember the password I used to protect it from opening. After searching around, I found that there are several programs and even services that will use various methods to get you back into an Excel file. Some are free to demo, most have some kind of charge.

Anyway, I started with a service that claimed they could decrypt the protected file without knowing the password. They would decrypt a small part of the file for fre as a demo. Following their instructions, about 2 minutes later I then had an accurately decrypted version of the first 5 or so lines of the file. For about $25 they would decrypt the whole file. Not entirely unreasonable, but I wanted to see what else was out there.

After that, I found various programs that would use various approaches to trying numerous passwords, one after the other, until the file password was found. I downloaded a demo version of one of these because I knew that if it found the password, it would show the first 2 characters. At first, I just let the program run to see what would happen. It tried about 400,000 passwords PER SECOND and estimated that at the worst case it would take 3 days to find the password. However, the program also had a feature where if you knew anything at all about the password, it would start with that and then move on. I was pretty sure that the password was all lower case, somewhere between 5 and 10 characters, and that part of it was probably a dictionary word. (Yeah, I know, not a great password.) I started the program up again. The password was found in - get this - 43 seconds.

My point is simple. No matter what password you choose, there's a tool out there that will bypass it for peanuts. I do realize that the Microsoft suite has never been considered paarticularly secure, but the fact that files can be read even without knowing the password is pretty scary. Encryption and physical separation will go a lot farther than a simple password any day.

And as for me, once I saw the 2 characters of the password, I knew what the full password was. I had chosen a password that no one would ever guess, but clearly that no longer matters!

6285. Mike
Columbus, Ohio
Age: 36
Aug 19, 2009
Property Auditor Website
My fiancee and I have recently purchased a home however she does not share all of my views regarding privacy. We have been able to reach a healthy compromise on most all things private. Her name is on the deed and the mortgage is in her name. My challenge and question is how do I get legal documentation showing that I am entitled to the house should something happen to her and keep my name off of and out of public databases and websites pertaining to this property? If I purchase a New Mexico LLC would I then be able to add that name to the deed along with the lender and my fiancee's name? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

... 1. The obvious first step is to get married.

2. Then transfer the house to the NM LLC.

3. Have a lawyer draw up an operating agreement according to the wishes of you both.

Oh-oh, wait. Did you mention "lender?" If you didn't pay cash, this will complicate things no end. Here is some advice you won't follow, but perhaps other still-single readers will benefit from it:

1. Never buy a house unless you can pay cash.

2. Even then, do not buy a house with anyone other than your legal mate.


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